For a while there it looked like Jen had everything figured out. And then a couple of marriages fell through.
She said, “I don’t have this sort of checklist of things that have to be done and…if they’re not checked then I’ve failed some part of my feminism, or my being a woman, or my worth or my value as a woman. I’ve birthed a lot of things, and I feel like I’ve mothered many things. And I don’t think it’s fair to put that pressure on people.”