The dating scene is interesting these days; people ghost others without any explanation.
Meanwhile, some go all out because they're interested in someone - like this TikToker who flew across the country for someone.
Flying Across The Country For Someone
Would you spend money on a plane ticket and fly across your country just to see someone?
Well, this woman did because she felt good vibes from this guy, and now she's regretting her decision.
Please Be Advised
Forewarning: unless a person is in a committed long-distance relationship, others typically advise against flying across a country just to go on a date with someone.
It can be dangerous!
Now, this story begins with a viral TikTok by Samantha.
Samantha stitched a video of a woman on a dinner date with a man. Halfway through her date, the man "had to go to the bathroom" and ghosted her.
Samantha's part of the TikTok video reads,
"I flew across the country to see this mans and when I woke up from a nap at our hotel he was goneeeee."
In another TikTok video, Samantha begins her story by telling viewers she was attracted to a friend of a friend.
He slid into her DMs; they flirted over text, chatted over text, and eventually, he said they should meet up!
She Hopped On A Plane!
Samantha agreed to meet with this guy because things were going well, and she was attracted to him.
So, Samantha decided to hop on a plane to visit him!
A Wonderful Date
After Samantha arrived at midnight, the following morning the two got brunch and walked around the downtown area.
Samantha admits there were some iffy moments - but looked past them because they were having a wonderful time!
Samantha Loves Board Games!
Before returning to the hotel room, Samantha suggested they grab some board games because she loves playing them!
So they did - they played some games and had some drinks before dinner!
She Fell Asleep...
This is when things take a turn; the date went to the washroom, and Samantha was feeling tired and was thinking about having a nap.
While the date was in the washroom, Samantha fell asleep.
...And He Was Gone!
When Samantha woke up half an hour later, her date, his bag, and her vodka were gone - her date ghosted her while she was asleep!
Samantha began to get anxious and freak out a bit!
He Wouldn't Respond
Samantha started texting and calling him, but he never responded. She asked their mutual friend to call him, and he answered but immediately hung up when he realized it was her.
Samantha's friend got back to her and said she heard loud music over the phone.
A Family Emergency
After receiving the phone call from their mutual friend, the guy finally messaged Samantha.
He told her, "sorry, I had a family emergency," and "was too upset to talk to her."
Something's Not Adding Up
For those who are intrepid detectives, like Samantha, you might have put a few things together -
Why was vodka needed for the family emergency, and why was there loud music on his phone when Samantha's friend called him?
Samantha Was Alone
Samantha was filled with many emotions because this guy she flew across the country for had left her alone in a hotel in a city that she had never been in!
Not to mention, he wasn't answering her phone calls!
A Supportive TikTok Community
Many people commented on Samantha's videos saying, "never fly anywhere for someone," and making light of the situation by saying, "you'll hear back from him in 6 months."
And, of course, some were upset that he took her vodka.
However, some people blamed Samantha for getting into the situation.
People commented, "you must be desperate," and others said it was her own fault for flying across the country for a man.
These Guys Might Be On To Something...
Other commenters believed he had a wife or girlfriend that he wasn't telling Samantha about, which turned out to be true!
And Samantha spilled the tea when she found out!
He IS In A Committed Relationship!
In another TikTok video, Samantha explains that the guy does, in fact, have a girlfriend of three years!
And not only that, but Samantha got a text from someone who saw her viral video.
But He Sees Other Girls On The Side!
And this someone was another girl that this guy was seeing on the side!
After seeing Samantha's TikTok video, she connected with her and told the story from her perspective!
Samantha And The Other Girl Were Played
Samantha tells viewers,
"The night that I arrived, he was with her. Then he left her and spent the day with me. Then he left me to spend the night with her!"
He Said All The Right Things
He was telling Samantha, "If I were going to the college in your town, we'd be married by now."
But all the while, he was texting the other girl saying he wanted to spend time with her.
That's Why He Took The Vodka!
He and the other girl were planning to meet at a pool party, and she asked if he needed anything.
He said no because he had a bottle of vodka with him - Samantha's bottle!
Samantha Hopes The Girlfriend Sees These Videos!
People asked Samantha to spill who the guy was, but she hasn't yet.
Samantha has heard that he's been doing this with other girls too and hopes his girlfriend sees her TikTok videos!